Insider’s Guide to Thailand: Where to Stay, Eat & Play
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If Thailand is one of the best countries to eat, then Chiang Mai is a particularly good city to find yourself hungry in.
Anthony Bourdain
Thailand is one of the top-booked destinations in Southeast Asia, and it’s very easy to see why. Similar in size to Spain or France, Thailand has distinct personalities, depending upon the region you visit. It’s just like what we experience here in the United States!
Head north to Chiang Mai (from Bangkok) for dramatic scenery and cultural immersion. In the middle of the country, Bangkok is a feast for all your sense. The street markets, temples and incredible food will tantalize you in all the good ways. And southern Thailand is home to romantic beachfront resorts in Phuket and tropical islands, like Koh Samui.
In this Thailand-focused installment of my Insider Guide I will share the best places to stay, where to play and where to sample this country’s famous cuisine. Get inspired by all of these Thailand impressions and reach out for us to discuss a trip designed just for you.
Wat Arun Temple | Bangkok
Need to Know
Currency: Thai Baht (THB). Carry cash and a credit card when visiting small, rural towns and street markets; many vendors will only accept cash. Bargaining is common in markets and street stalls, and tipping is not expected.
Airports: Suvarnabhumi Airport (BKK), Don Mueang International Airport (DMK), Phuket International Airport (HKT), Chiang Mai International Airport (CNX).
Transportation: Trains and buses — good for budget-savvy travelers — have extensive networks and can get you almost anywhere, with options ranging from budget to luxury (with air conditioning). In cities, taxis and rideshare services like Grab are convenient for short distances, and Tuk-Tuks and songthaews are ideal for short trips and navigating Bangkok’s infamous traffic. For island visits or the famous floating markets, boats and ferries are practical.
Best Time to Visit: The cool season (November to February) is best for exploring cultural sites and outdoor activities in northern and central Thailand. The hot season (March to June) works well for island-hopping, beach vacations and local festivals. Note: Monsoon season (July to October) is surprisingly pleasant to visit if you’re looking for fewer crowds and stunning landscapes.
Ideal Length of Stay: 10-14 days is great if you want to do a greatest hits tour of the whole country and visit Bangkok, Chiang Mai and the islands. If you have less time, you might opt for fewer destinations, and perhaps prioritize the islands only.
Signature Dishes: Pad Thai, Tom Yum Goong, Som Tam (green papaya salad), Green Curry (Gaeng Keow Wan), Massaman Curry, Khao Pad (fried rice), Mango Sticky Rice (Khao Niew Ma Muang), Pad Kra Pao (basil chicken), Laab (ground meat salad).
Dress Code: Wear comfortable walking shoes and lightweight, breathable clothing for heat and humidity. Beachwear is fine for the coast though not suitable for town areas. For visits to royal palaces, religious sites or government buildings, wear modest attire covering shoulders and knees.
Insider’s Guide to Thailand: Bangkok
River View from Four Seasons Bangkok
To say Bangkok is a bustling city would be an understatement. Towering skyscrapers and ancient temples share the skyline, and at street level, scores of markets and food stalls overflow with goods (and food!) of all kinds. The capital city has a population of about nine million (similar to New York City) and is also known for its historic sites, lively nightlife and incredible street food — so plan at least two days here to explore.
Where to Stay in Bangkok
Premier Room | The Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok
Mandarin Oriental, Bangkok:Â This elegant hotel is located on the banks of the Chao Pharya (Thailand’s largest river). There are many unique experiences that can be arranged while staying here including: a tour in an iconic longtail boat to see some of the local communities only accessible by water; a guided tour to the temples or flower markets or a 120-minute calmness spa treatment with an “energetic twist.” Book with me to receive perks including a $100 food & beverage or spa credit, breakfast daily and an upgrade whenever possible.Â
Kimpton Maa-Lai Bangkok:Â A luxe choice with sleek rooms and an incredible elevated pool. Book with me to receive perks including a $100 hotel credit, breakfast daily, upgrade (whenever possible) and guaranteed late check-out.
The Siam:Â Boutique option with a fountain atrium and lush waterfront pool. This is the only luxury Bangkok hotel located in the historical Dusit district. Book with me to receive a $100 hotel credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Four Seasons Hotel Bangkok at Chao Phraya River:Â Ranked #3 among the top 50 hotels in the world in 2023, this riverfront hotel has a stunning design, serene spa and innovative cuisines. Book with me to receive exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner benefits. I’ll be pleased to give you more details.
COMO Metropolitan Bangkok:Â Contemporary hotel located in a quiet area of Bangkok, yet still within a short reach of the main attractions and vibrant neighborhoods of the city. Book with me to receive a $25 hotel credit, a welcome amenity, guaranteed late checkout and an upgrade whenever possible.
The Peninsula Bangkok:Â Beautiful towering hotel with classic rooms and river views. Guests of the Peninsula have access to the Peninsula Academy, offering bespoke experiences for adults, families and children. Book with me to lock in Peninsula PenClub perks like a $100 food & beverage or spa credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Where to play in Bangkok
Chatuchak Weekend Market
Start at the Grand Palace, a magnificent complex that served as a royal residence until 1925. In the same complex, you can see the temple of the Emerald Buddha, the most sacred Buddhist site in Thailand. Then head to Wat Arun (Temple of Dawn), located on the west bank of the Chao Phraya River. Another option is Wat Saket, which is the oldest of the temples, dating back to the Ayutthaya period.
Dive into the vibrant market scene and get ready to bargain at the Chatuchak Weekend Market (also known as the JJ Market), the largest outdoor bazaar in Thailand. And for more local finds, head to the neighborhoods of Thonglor and Ekkamai. If you want a modern shopping experience, check out ICONSIAM and Siam Paragon. Art enthusiasts will have many places from which to choose: YenakArt Villa, RMA Institute, Sathorn 11 Art Space and MOCA Bangkok.
With all there is to see, the city also makes space for down time. Lumphini Park is perfect for a leisurely day with outdoor yoga, swan paddle boats and a public library. Or combine a temple visit with a massage at Wat Po or an urban escape at the Spa at the COMO. Water lovers can opt for a longtail boat down the canals or a luxury river cruise on the Chao Phraya. And renting a bike is a great way to see Bang Krachao, a jungle path known as the Green Lung of Bangkok. (Though I highly recommend a guide to steer you the right directions around the traffic and streets while on a bike.)
Lastly, for an incredible vantage point, the MahaNakhon tower has an Observation Deck for 360-degree views of Bangkok.
Where to Eat in Bangkok
Bangkok Street Market
When it comes to food, your biggest problem in Bangkok is deciding which incredible spot to try. Known as a foodie haven, the city has a broad range of cuisine. It’s all yours to taste from upscale formal dining to delectable street bites.
For a splurge, try Gaggan. Here the eclectic plates are almost too beautiful to eat. (And for some background on award-winning chef, Gaggan Anand, check out the Netflix documentary about him and his food.) Sorn is another spot for meticulous Thai-inspired cuisine. Haoma Bangkok offers a tasting menu in a garden-like setting. And for those looking for the latest in food stars is POTONG. Chef Pam is the youngest female chef to receive a Michelin star. (And inside POTONG is the Opium Bar. Voted one of the top 50 best bars in Asia, they are your spot for some “liquid surreality.”)
Follow your sense in the street markets to find tasty bites. Areas famous for their street food include Chatuchak Weekend Market, Yaowarat (Chinatown), Khao San Road and Sukhumvit Soi 38. Backstreet Academy will take you on a guided street food tour.
Insider’s Guide to Chiang Mai
Chiang Mai is a vibrant city albeit more laid back than Bangkok. Here you will find a wide array of cultural stops as well as a vibrant food and nightlife scent. Activities can extend to adventures in nature along with some gorgeous surrounding terrain.
Where to Stay in Chiang Mai
Resort View | Four Seasons Resort Chiang Mai
Raya Heritage Chiang Mai: Containing only 38 suites, this is a lovely boutique property who places a value on combining nature with the surroundings. Book with me to receive a THB1,000 resort credit (for a three-day minimum stay), daily breakfast, an upgrade and early check-in/out whenever possible.
Four Seasons Resort Chiang Mai: Such a stunning property! Set a bit outside of town among the rice fields, the luxurious rooms (and villas) have a focus on wellness. Book with me to enjoy exclusive Four Seasons Preferred Partner benefits.
137 Pillars House: An intimate hotel with a traditional feel and beautiful grounds. Book with me for withIN perks like a food and beverage or spa credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Akyra Manor Chiang Mai: Hip urban spot with a rooftop pool. Book with me for withIN perks like a food and beverage or spa credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Where to Play in Chiang Mai
Patara Elephant Conservation
Get to know the city by diving into the nightlife and modern culture down Nimmanhaemin Road. This bustling area is packed with trendy bars, cafes, shops which make it a hotspot for locals and visitors alike.
To connect with the area’s culture, visit the iconic Wat Pra that Doi Suthep Temple, perched atop a mountain with fantastic views and over six centuries of history. Don’t miss Wat Suan Dok Temple, one of the city’s most famous Buddhist temples, and Wat Chedi Luang Temple, located just west of the Ping River.
If you wish to connect with the Thailand natural resources, head to Doi Inthanon National Park, known as the “Roof of Thailand,” for some incredible hiking opportunities. Another great destination is Doi Ang Khang, about two hours southwest of the city where you’ll experience beautiful mountain landscapes and trails.
If you want to visit an elephant sanctuary, Chiang Mai is the place to do it. Animal lovers can’t miss visiting Elephant Nature Park or Patara Elephant Conservation. Both are a memorable way to connect with Thailand’s majestic elephants in a responsible way. (Do your research as many places will bill themselves as “sanctuaries,” when they are actually not. I can assist you in narrowing down the best ethical experiences.)
Trust a guide to introduce you to local artisans in villages like Baan Celadon for pottery or other spots for woven Thai silk garments. These tours provide insight into traditional Thai craftmanship, allowing you to take a piece of Chiang Mai home with you while supporting local artists.
Where to Eat in Chaing Mai
Chiang Mai is a food lover’s paradise. If you’re on the hunt for fresh and healthy eats, check out Anchan Vegetarian Restaurant. Another great spot is Pun Pun Organic Restaurant, where they take sustainable dining seriously with organic ingredients and local farming.
For a fancy night out, Cuisine de Garden is Michelin-recommended and offers a modern twist on traditional flavors. Le Crystal Restaurant‘s specialty is French cuisine in a riverside setting. The Service 1921 Restaurant & Bar combines Thai and international flavors in a hip, cool venue.
If you’re craving something in a more laid-back setting, try Rustic & Blue for hearty, farm-to-table dishes. The House by Ginger is another local favorite, blending contemporary Thai cuisine with a charming setting. For an artistic touch, try The Gallery Restaurant, where Thai dishes are served in a riverside art gallery.
Insider’s Guide to Thailand: Phuket
Known primarily for exceptional beaches and gorgeous turquoise water, Phuket is also home to vibrant nightlife, incredible food and cultural stops. Whether you’re into diving in crystal clear waters, exploring bustling markets or simply relaxing with a Thai massage, Phuket has your covered. It’s the perfect blend of tropical paradise and water-based adventure.
Where to Stay in Phuket
Ocean View Pool Suite | Trisara
Rosewood Phuket: A blend of modern and classic styles with a beach, upscale dining and a spa. Book with meet to receive breakfast daily and an upgrade whenever possible.
Trisara: Elegant Thai-inspired architecture combined with gorgeous airy rooms and waterfront views. Book with me to receive perks like a $100 wellness and on-site activity credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Six Senses Yao Noi: Hillside gem with sweeping sea views and open-air suites. Book with me to receive a complimentary massage, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Phulay Bay, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve: Secluded property with traditional, luxurious rooms, a huge pool area, plus beach access. Book with me to receive a $100 hotel credit, welcome amenity, an upgrade and guaranteed late check-out whenever possible.
COMO Point Yamu: Minimalist design paired with stupendous water views and beach access (via boat). Book with me to receive a $100 hotel credit, welcome amenity, an upgrade and guaranteed late check-out whenever possible.
The Surin Phuket: Relaxing beachfront haven with the same architect as Amanpuri and an approachable price point. Book with me to receive breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Rayavadee: Boutique hotel with a luxe residential feel and tranquil beach. Book with me to receive THB1,000 resort credit (for a three-day minimum stay), daily breakfast, an upgrade and early check-in/out whenever possible.
Where to Play in Phuket
Thai Herbal Massage | Six Senses Yao Noi
Phuket is a dream trip for those drawn to water. The Phi Phi Islands are a must visit for prime diving spots, snorkeling and boat tours. Similarly, Phang Nga Bay is perfect for a day of exploration. Both the famous James Bond Island (featured in “Man with the Golden Gun”) and the floating village of Koh Panyee are here.
Old Phuket Town is great for a taste of local culture, especially during the Sunday Street Market. For stellar views, head up to the iconic Big Buddha, then unwind with a traditional Thai massage. (I can share with you the best spas in the area.) There is also a lively nightlife scene, especially on Bangla Road in Patong.
Where to Eat on Phuket
Octopus Salad | Acqua Restaurant
Phuket is another great spot to wander the local village markets and follow the delicious smells to find a tasty treat. For more upscale dining options, check out PRU, an understated restaurant who prides itself not only for its sustainable food preparation but for incorporating local artisans into the decor of the restaurant as well. Acqua Restaurant, a Michelin-star restaurant, offers beautiful views of the sea while dining on creative international dishes.
Koh Samui is an island located in the Gulf of Thailand. Over 400 miles south of Bangkok, it’s easily accessible by a short flight. It’s the place to go for amazing beaches and jungle adventures. This is the place to also come for romantic seaside hotels paired with scuba diving or hiking, making it a nice stop after the urban energy of Bangkok.
Where to Stay in Koh Samui
Beachfront Pool Suite | Anantara Lawana Koh Samui Resort
Soneva Kiri: Treepod dining and luxe villas, some with private beaches. Book with me to receive a $100 resort credit.
Napasai, A Belmond Hotel, Koh Samui: Classic yet breezy villas with private pools and seaside views. Book with me to receive a complimentary massage, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Four Seasons Resort Koh Samui: Hillside retreat with rustic-luxe villas and one of the settings in the latest season of White Lotus. Book with me to receive Four Seasons Preferred Partner benefits.
Six Senses Samui: Bright villas and open-air common spaces all facing a gorgeous sea view. Book with me to receive a $100 hotel credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Anantara Lawana Koh Samui Resort: Sleek beachfront haven with stylish villas and huge infinity pool. Book with me to receive a $100 food and beverage credit, breakfast daily, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Where to Play in Koh Samui
Ang Thong National Marine Park | Koh Samui
Koh Samui is packed with activities that cater to every kind of traveler. If you like a challenge, take a tour to Ang Thong National Marine Park, where a steep hike rewards you with astounding panoramic views. A less strenuous option is Na Muang Waterfall, especially beautiful during the rainy season.
Local cultural highlights include Wat Lamai, conveniently located five minutes from Lamai Beach, and the Secret Buddha Garden, an amazing array of statues created by a local farmer. For local flavors and goods, the Fisherman’s Village Walking Street is where to go. This bustling market is perfect for shopping and tasting street food.
The island has the white-sand beaches have dreamt of, dotted with simple shacks with local eats. Relax on Chaweng Beach, the island’s largest and most popular beach, or divers can explore sites like Chumphon Pinnacle and even get certified by a professional diving school.
If you’re looking for a special occasion dinner, many of the hotels in Koh Samui have exceptional restaurants. Check out Dining on the Rocks at Six Senses Samui for outdoor dining overlooking the sea. KOH Thai Kitchen at the Four Seasons features Southern Thai cuisine with a hilltop view. For an especially romantic night, don’t miss Tree Tops, where you’ll have a private, elevated dining area surrounded by tree canopies and sea views.
More laid-back bites can be found at Krua Chao Baan Samui and Jun Hom, both dishing up casual Thai recipes with beachfront views.
And for a hip club-like experience with beautiful decor, check out The Club by Zanzen, a stylish restaurant and bar decked out in plush white with stellar waterfront views.